Harness The Negative Events, Into A Positive Energy.

 

  While fighting for your "Peace of Mind", try as much as possible to harness the negative events into a positive power source. I know by now, you are asking yourself "how"? , am going to situate my post on a friend's experience when she filed for a divorce, it was a tough and harsh experience/decision for her, because that one big decision, aroused lots of negative comments and assumptions about her and the gossip mongers, didn't leave any stones unturned in spreading their negative energy and thoughts, most of them said "she was caught with another man and that was why she came back" while the rest said ; "she stole some money from him" they indirectly questioned her upbringing and painted a negative picture of it, she had two Choices then, "To allow them transmit their negative source to her or "To prove them wrong, by harnessing it, into a positive energy, how did she do that? By proving them wrong in every way, through her positive actions, achievements and decisions. And she's living a massive positive life.

 "One of the lessons that I grew up with was to always stay true to yourself and never let what somebody else says distract you from your goals. And so when I hear about negative and false attacks, I really don't invest any energy in them, because I know who I am". ~Michelle Obama~

   I have witnessed first hand, cases of many beautiful individuals transform themselves to sadists , lesbians and the rest that depicts bad image of their true self, ask them why they are in that negative cycle, and they would blame it on a particular negative experience they had in the past. "Even if someone said or did something to you, it is definitely not an excuse to let it situate and confine you in a negative cycle, where you have no choice but to live the rest of your life on their own negative terms", without you having an ounce of idea about it, until it eats deep into your vein and overtake your being leaving a pathetic picture of you behind.

   Michael Jordan once said; If you accept the expectations of others, especially negative ones, then you never will change the outcome". So, what choice do you want to make today? Dwell in the cycle of negativity or turn it into a positive energy? Choose wisely!.

     A 20 year old girl got pregnant, when she was asked why she didn't take precautionary measures, she simply said "My father once told me , I would never be useful", I felt it to my bones, that's a deep negative vibe, she listened to it and dwelled in it, but one thing she didn't understand was that; she had the choice to turn her father's words into a positive force, proving him wrong in every aspect.

   So, don't let another person's negative vibes, actions and failed promises overpower your positive power source and mould you into a personality you are not, turn every negative events into a source of strength and courage, rather than falling because you were hit by a thunderstorm, pick up the pieces  from where you fell off from, don't let one negative hit serve as a lifetime defeat, if everyone gave up and accepted the negative energy around them, the world would have been a mess of who we truly are. If someone ever called you stupid and meant it, prove them wrong by turning their assumed idea of stupidity into a bountiful wisdom, don't let one's negative comparisons thwart your amazing positive visions. Always do the opposite of whatever negative expectations they cling to. Don't let that one '' Marital disappointment" turn you into a sadist with myopic views about life, don't let that one negativity turn your life into a mess of negativity . 

   Remember to always turn every negative events, comments, visions into a opposite positive leap!!. I sincerely hope you take control of all the negative effects, you have harboured until now and harness it all,into that push you need to be the best and unedited version of yourself. I am always here having you in my thoughts in every step of the way, cheering for you.

                    ©Chimlee