"Opinion Poll"

         I know this heartbreaks can disorient our thoughts and actions, I understand entirely how it feels to watch the empire you built around a loved one, crumble before you and at that point you want to let your heart out and let someone,somewhere have a fill of how you feel, most times you would want your Ex to know exactly how it feels like to be left alone, but bringing this scenario to "Social Media" can only get you the sympathy you crave for, but definitely not the "Solution to your problems" or a "Subtle care to the pain you feel" it will only expose you to more pitiable situations and "wolves in sheep's clothing" waiting to devour you.

I wouldn't start  this  section without posting a screenshot of  "people's view on "most Folks posting relationships that didn't end well on Social Media and making aggressive/negative remarks to their intended Ex/Spouse".

        The use of Social Media is highly underrated these days, that I had to  confine myself into a "Mind war" deliberating thoroughly on where it all went wrong. 

    It just feels like everyone wants a "Self pity" , like there's a special reward gained by defaming people due to a bad relationship, and most persons feel the coolest spot to find comfort in is on "Social Media".

I got curious and surfed for points to validate my " Opinion" on this and I read an interesting piece on the "Don'ts" of "Social Media" in an article from "Rappler.com" it states clearly that: One shouldn't use one's social media accounts to spread hate, Do not be one of the these people. Do not use your social media account for the sole purpose of demeaning individuals or groups. Do not resort to personal attacks when you come across a post or a comment that is against your stand. Secondly that one shouldn't share too much information online.

           Social Media is a networking community where we communicate effectively and share good and informative memories with friends and family, a source for information to promote businesses,laugh and make new friends, where ideas are transmitted.  Probably we officially forgot, but in recent times, most folks have taken up to social media to post their "Relationships" and paint their Exes in a bad light.  how exactly do you feel comfortable, making aggressive remarks about your Exes on social media, as if social media was notified when you started the relationship? What exactly you intend to achieve by making that ugly remarks about someone that was once your "Lover" Friend" and soul mate"? Someone you built all bridges with and crossed oceans with?  How exactly do you feel comfortable posting your problems on social media, just to get an "Aww, what a pity"? And a girl takes to the social media to say "Men are scum" and the man on the other  hand updates his own and say "All girls are the same" women are evil" (wow!)

   Why do we utilize the usefulness of social media just  to do the opposite of what it was created for? 

 The sad news is : 80% of the people that reads your post are glad you have the problem, most of them are monitoring spirits, waiting to "Cheer" to the next problem you face. Don't spread your bad vibes to people, Social Media doesn't just consist of adults anymore, kids are on social media surfing and effecting what they read or see on social media in their personal lives. 

Rather than using the social media as a means/ tool to unleash your bitterness and hate, coin your experience together and use it as a tool to pass a message to the public and impact on everyone, without referring to anyone in particular or being a sadist unecessarily, spreading it among the weak minds and forming a chain of "Sadists" giving them a bad perception about relationships,

 If you want to post about your heartbreaks , keep it in mind to equally share your shortcomings in the same scenario(because there is always a two side of the Story), to enable people pass a neutral verdict, don't post about how you are just the victim and how much of a monster your intended Ex/spouse was.

    Keep your private life on lock, let it stay off social media, don't go round gaining sympathy from people that doesn't even know the full story of what happened, stop defaming "men or women folk" on Social Media to prove, you just passed through a bad relationship phase, if everyone should post about their "heartbreaks"on Social Media,it would turn out to be a "Tearworking and Hateworking site.

©Chimlee